I first would like to say this is not judgement rather seeking to understand. I had the thought while watching the “coming out party” that I wonder what his first wife and kids feel about his ability to look past gender to maintain a marriage but didn’t for them”. But that is based on no prior knowledge. I thought I read his first marriage ended because he came out as gay? Is that wrong? But if that was the sole reason I imagine the natural thought his original family unit is that, right? I also feel he is loosely commited to the idea of marriage. I think that if it doesn’t work out Shawn is okay with maintaining that sponsorship of Aliyah because would she have a better life here and it would take the guilt of not addressing the red flags? But I don’t think that would be Aliyah’s reaction- or maybe not? What do you think?