Not trying to be rude, and I definitely don’t think everything Shawn has done is right—but why does it feel like everything is about Alliya getting what she wants, and none of it is about what Shawn wants? Everything on the show seems focused on making Alliya comfortable—the transition, everything else—and Shawn is the one funding it all. It honestly feels like that’s more important than them even getting married. Like, she gets to the U.S. and immediately it’s, “Let me get my transition sorted,” before the wedding is even planned. And in almost every episode, she’s asking for something new.