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At just 13 years old, Diane Lane boarded a plane alone, leaving New York behind …

At just 13 years old, Diane Lane boarded a plane alone, leaving New York behind for Paris—without her parents’ permission—to act alongside the legendary Sir Laurence Olivier. That film, “A Little Romance,” would set the stage for a lifetime of bold, courageous choices that became the hallmark of Lane’s career. Olivier himself famously dubbed her “the next Grace Kelly.” For a young girl who’d grown up in the turbulence of a broken home, such recognition from a cinematic giant was more than just flattery—it was a pivotal moment.
Diane Colleen Lane was born on January 22, 1965, in New York City. Her father, Burton Eugene Lane, worked as a drama coach in Manhattan and led acting workshops, while her mother, Colleen Farrington, was a nightclub singer and former model who once graced the pages of “Playboy” in 1957. When Diane was only 13 days old, her parents separated, and she spent her earliest years primarily with her mother. By the age of six, she made the decision to live with her father, embarking on an unconventional childhood that often involved moving from place to place, sometimes even staying in hotels when a permanent home wasn’t available.
Lane attended Hunter College High School, but her academic path was anything but ordinary, as she was already immersed in the world of acting. She began performing at the renowned La MaMa Experimental Theatre Club at just six years old, and by twelve, she had appeared in several productions under the direction of Andrei Șerban. Instead of pursuing a traditional college education, Lane devoted herself entirely to acting, learning her craft on film sets and in rehearsal spaces rather than classrooms.
Her big-screen debut arrived in 1979 with “A Little Romance,” where she played a spirited American girl who finds love in Paris. The role thrust her into the spotlight and drew comparisons to Hollywood’s most iconic stars, despite her youth. Yet, her journey was far from smooth. As she took on roles in films like “Touched by Love” and “Six Pack,” Lane grappled with the challenges of growing up in Hollywood, often struggling to find parts that matched her evolving abilities.
In 1983, Lane starred in Francis Ford Coppola’s “Rumble Fish” and “The Outsiders,” sharing the screen with future luminaries like Tom Cruise, Matt Dillon, and Mickey Rourke. That same year, she took the lead in Coppola’s visually striking “The Cotton Club,” portraying a Harlem nightclub singer caught in a web of crime and romance. Although the film didn’t meet box office expectations, it solidified Lane’s reputation as a gifted young actress capable of handling complex roles.
By the late 1980s, feeling disenchanted with Hollywood, Lane stepped away from the spotlight. She relocated to Georgia, purchased a farm, and focused on her personal life—a much-needed respite that allowed her to reassess her priorities before making a triumphant return to acting in the 1990s.
Her resurgence began with “A Walk on the Moon” in 1999, where she played a 1960s housewife torn between family obligations and newfound desires. Her nuanced, heartfelt performance earned critical acclaim. But it was her role in 2002’s “Unfaithful” that proved transformative. Starring opposite Richard Gere and Olivier Martinez, Lane portrayed a suburban wife drawn into a dangerous affair. Her raw, emotionally charged performance garnered her an Academy Award nomination for Best Actress, along with nods from the Golden Globes and Screen Actors Guild.
Lane continued to shine in a variety of films, including “Under the Tuscan Sun,” “Must Love Dogs,” “Nights in Rodanthe,” and “Hollywoodland.” Whether in sweeping dramas or romantic tales, she consistently brought grace and depth to her characters, often portraying women navigating emotional crossroads. In 2013, she took on the role of Martha Kent, Superman’s adoptive mother, in “Man of Steel,” a part she reprised in “Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice” and “Zack Snyder’s Justice League.”
Her television work has also been noteworthy, including her portrayal of Hillary Clinton in the miniseries “The Special Relationship” and a leading role in the 2020 thriller “Let Him Go” alongside Kevin Costner. More recently, Lane starred in the political drama “Y: The Last Man” and appeared in the final season of Netflix’s “House of Cards.”
On the personal front, Lane married actor Christopher Lambert in 1988 after meeting on the set of “The Cotton Club.” They welcomed their daughter, Eleanor Jasmine Lambert, in 1993 before parting ways in 1994. She later wed actor Josh Brolin in 2004, though the marriage ended in 2013. Throughout her public relationships, Lane has maintained a sense of privacy and dignity, never allowing her private life to overshadow her work.
Now in her 60s, Diane Lane remains a force in both independent films and major studio projects, carefully selecting roles that challenge her and showcase her remarkable range. She gravitates toward characters wrestling with inner turmoil and transformation, a testament to the depth she brings to every performance.
Lane is set to star in the upcoming Amazon Prime series “Expatriates,” portraying Margaret, a woman navigating personal loss while adapting to life in Hong Kong.
Diane Lane has never let fame dictate her choices or compromise her authenticity. Her quiet resilience and unwavering commitment continue to leave an indelible mark on American cinema.